quote: Originally posted by: "That's what I've been doing, but the whole concept seem soooo unnatural to me, and I feel like a fake some times...but I'll never hurt 'her' feelings..."
You may have a point, since I don't have any such friends can't say as to how I really would feel on a regular basis.
quote: Originally posted by: "That's what I've been doing, but the whole concept seem soooo unnatural to me, and I feel like a fake some times...but I'll never hurt 'her' feelings..."
I guess in such situation....its good to sit down with your friend and let him/her know...how u truely feel, and that you couldn't help it. Make ur friend understand. I am sure he/she wont mind if you speak your heart out. In fact, I know that these gay folks are very understanding towards straight ppl, they sort of understand that we straight ones do have a problem accepting it...and I am sure if you talk it out, it will release some of your tension.
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quote: Originally posted by: "I guess in such situation....its good to sit down with your friend and let him/her know...how u truely feel, and that you couldn't help it. Make ur friend understand. I am sure he/she wont mind if you speak your heart out. In fact, I know that these gay folks are very understanding towards straight ppl, they sort of understand that we straight ones do have a problem accepting it...and I am sure if you talk it out, it will release some of your tension."
Truthfully i don't think they feel any tension in our friendship at all...I just avoid all controversial topics, and basically just be a friend ....but I do wish I was more comfortable with the whole issue, but i truely feel it's fundamentally wrong!!!
quote: Originally posted by: "That is why i said......TALK"
I think talking in this case might do more harm than good ,and beside they're not gonna change their lifestyle...I'll still be there even after talking... truely feel I have to work out my issues introvertly....
quote: Originally posted by: "I think talking in this case might do more harm than good ,and beside they're not gonna change their lifestyle...I'll still be there even after talking... truely feel I have to work out my issues introvertly...."
The whole purpose of talking is to make yourself feel comfortable......of course, it wont change their lifestyle.
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