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"That's what I've been doing, but the whole concept seem soooo unnatural to me, and I feel like a fake some times...but I'll never hurt 'her' feelings..."

  You may have a point, since I don't have any such friends can't say as to how I really would feel on a regular basis.

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"That's what I've been doing, but the whole concept seem soooo unnatural to me, and I feel like a fake some times...but I'll never hurt 'her' feelings..."

I guess in such situation....its good to sit down with your friend and let him/her know...how u truely feel, and that you couldn't help it.  Make ur friend understand. I am sure he/she wont mind if you speak your heart out. In fact, I know that these gay folks are very understanding towards straight ppl, they sort of understand that we straight ones do have a problem accepting it...and I am sure if you talk it out, it will release some of your tension.

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"I guess in such situation....its good to sit down with your friend and let him/her know...how u truely feel, and that you couldn't help it.  Make ur friend understand. I am sure he/she wont mind if you speak your heart out. In fact, I know that these gay folks are very understanding towards straight ppl, they sort of understand that we straight ones do have a problem accepting it...and I am sure if you talk it out, it will release some of your tension."


Truthfully i don't think  they feel any tension in our friendship at all...I just avoid  all controversial topics, and basically just be a friend ....but I do wish I was more comfortable with the whole issue, but i truely feel it's fundamentally wrong!!!



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That is why i said......TALK

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"That is why i said......TALK"

I think talking in this case might do more harm than good ,and beside they're not gonna change their lifestyle...I'll still be there even after talking... truely feel I have to work out my issues  introvertly....

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"I think talking in this case might do more harm than good ,and beside they're not gonna change their lifestyle...I'll still be there even after talking... truely feel I have to work out my issues  introvertly...."

The whole purpose of talking is to make yourself feel comfortable......of course, it wont change their lifestyle.

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