Dil Main jo baat hain batado.(Let it out )

rinx · Senior Member

RE: Dil Main jo baat hain batado.(Let it out )

RJ_Sonia · Administrator

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"Thanks rostx, You are absolutely right. That is exactly how i feel today, they did not even think that may be they are stresed out due to the news they have just received, and instead of that they made our condition worst at the time when i needed them most. And yes they both are Indians.(my hubby and the other couple) Thank you sooo much for your help to make me understand what kind of people they are, their true color came out i guess."

Very touchy subject indeed...The root of problem could be anything. Sometimes its some deep personal problem of a couple, and it sort of comes out in different ways.

If I were in the same situation, I would get both couples together at a dinner.....and talk things out and try to straighten them out.

rostx · Guru's GURU

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"Very touchy subject indeed...The root of problem could be anything. Sometimes its some deep personal problem of a couple, and it sort of comes out in different ways.If I were in the same situation, I would get both couples together at a dinner.....and talk things out and try to straighten them out."

But sonia i understand the need to maybe straighten things out..but do you really think the friendship would ever be the same , especially for rinx who seem to have been really disappointed and hurt by someone she truley believed in..and you've got to ask yourself what was the husband thinking to hastily send out such an email..(and the wife for allowing him to blow things out of portportion since it was the first time anything of this nature had happenned)

It seem to me that they both were to much in a hurry to sling insults...what kind of 'friends' wouldn't give you the benefit of the doubt?

rinx · Senior Member

ROSTX,

THAT'S IS HOW I FEEL RIGHT NOW, THAT THEY WERE REALLY LOOKING FORWARD TO MAY BE BREAK THE FRIENDSHIP IF NOT HER MAY BE THE HUSBAND DID NOT LIKE OUR FRIENDSHIP, OR MAY BE JEALOUS OF IT AND WANTED THE WIFE TO DO THE HONORS SO HE CAN END IT. BECAUSE HE IS VERY SENSIBLE AND SMART GUY, OR MAY BE JUST ACTING IN FRONT OF PEOPLE.

I AM REALLY HEART BROKEN RIGHT NOW I HAD NEVER EXPECTED THIS TO HAPPEN EVEN IN MY DREAMS.

rostx · Guru's GURU

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"ROSTX, THAT'S IS HOW I FEEL RIGHT NOW, THAT THEY WERE REALLY LOOKING FORWARD TO MAY BE BREAK THE FRIENDSHIP IF NOT HER MAY BE THE HUSBAND DID NOT LIKE OUR FRIENDSHIP, OR MAY BE JEALOUS OF IT AND WANTED THE WIFE TO DO THE HONORS SO HE CAN END IT. BECAUSE HE IS VERY SENSIBLE AND SMART GUY, OR MAY BE JUST ACTING IN FRONT OF PEOPLE. I AM REALLY HEART BROKEN RIGHT NOW I HAD NEVER EXPECTED THIS TO HAPPEN EVEN IN MY DREAMS. "

Rinx, is that the friend you were in business with?..cause maybe that had something to do with it....

rinx · Senior Member

No No not her.